FAQ - Sensualise Your Life

What's the difference between coaching and therapy?

As your coach, I walk beside you for a focused period, working together to design and build your future. While therapists help uncover and process past traumas and mental health challenges, our coaching relationship focuses on where you are now and where you want to go. Think of it this way: if you’re experiencing intimacy issues, a therapist might help you understand how your childhood shaped your current fears. As your coach, I acknowledge these patterns while creating practical strategies and experiences to enhance your intimate connections today.

Do you have professional supervision?

Absolutely. I work with an experienced supervisor who ensures I maintain the highest professional standards and continue growing in my practice.

What about your code of ethics?

As a professional member of the Association of Somatic & Integrative Sexologists, I strictly adhere to their Code of Ethics and Ethical Code of Practice. [Add link to codes]

Will there be physical touch during sessions?

For standard coaching sessions, there is no physical touch between client and coach. The exception is the “Sensualise your Life” program for couples/throuples, which includes guided touch exercises, massage, and tantric practices – all with explicit consent and clear boundaries.

I feel a lot of shame around my sexuality, can I work with you?

Oh yes, I’ve been there, believe me.

Who can benefit from the Sensualise your Life program?

This program is designed for partners seeking to deepen their intimate connection. Whether choosing the 4-hour or two-day option, you’ll learn tantric basics, enhance communication, and develop sustainable practices for pleasure and connection.

What does 'embodied' mean?

Think of your body as your personal GPS for life. Being ’embodied’ means you’re actually tuned in to what’s happening in your body – not just living in your head. It’s about feeling your heartbeat quicken when you’re excited, noticing tension in your shoulders when you’re stressed, or recognizing that flutter in your stomach when you’re attracted to someone. When we work together, we use this body awareness as a practical tool for deeper intimacy and better relationships. No mystical stuff – just you getting better at reading and trusting your body’s signals.

How do payments work, especially for international clients?

I keep it simple and secure. You can pay via PayPal or Wise, making it easy to handle different currencies and international transfers. All prices are listed in EUR, but don’t worry – these platforms will handle the conversion for you.

Are there people you don't work with?

Couples in abusive relationships
Individuals with a history of sexual offenses
Those requiring specialized trauma therapy (I’ll provide appropriate referrals)

I'm in peri/menopause, can I work with you?

Absolutely! I’m passionate about supporting women through this transformative life stage with practical guidance and understanding.

Will you contact me between sessions?

I respect your privacy and only send session reminders. If you’re enrolled in a longer program, additional check-ins may be included as part of your package.

Is there a contract?

Yes, we’ll establish clear agreements through a formal contract once we decide to work together.

What's your cancellation policy?

I understand life happens and handle cancellations case-by-case with flexibility and understanding.

Which languages do you offer coaching in?

I provide coaching services in English, French, and Dutch, allowing you to express yourself in the language you’re most comfortable with.

Are you available for lectures, talks, or podcasts?

Hell yes! I’m a woman on a mission and love sharing knowledge through various platforms.